Sense of Candidate Father upset

The prospective mother must have had a huge fear about the moment of birth of her child. Concerns about safety, how to push, breathe, and so forth. But, in addition to the prospective mother, the prospective father also had a fear of facing the birth of the child. What are they afraid of?
About pregnancy* Fear of increased responsibility.* Worried that they do not know how to help their partner even if they wanted to help.* Feeling unnoticed or not be involved in protecting and maintaining pregnancy.* Surprised about the pain faced by the couple and did not know how to help the expectant mother.* Afraid of finance whether it will be enough.* Feeling unable to connect with the baby.* Fearing their partners feel tired or experience pain for a long time.* Concerned about how life as a couple will change once your baby comes.
About delivery:* Do not know whether he would be able to be in the delivery room.* Worried see their partners are facing in pain and could not do much for him.* Fearing the process would be too "medical" or scary because a lot of blood.* Fear not addressed by the medical officer.* Fearing the moment of birth will be missed due to late coming to the hospital.
Men also enjoy the many aspects of pregnancy and the moment of birth. They also feel happy because it could eventually become a father. Secretly, he also appeared to prefer to see her belly grow as the development of the baby. Not only that, he was pleased when he saw her photo on the scanner. As the expectant mother, they also like to express to others that he was waiting for the presence of the small and like to plan and think about the baby even though its scale is not as often as the prospective mother.
Regarding the birth moment of the day, there are positive things also are present in the minds of the prospective father. They will feel very happy and relieved that finally there is also the day the eagerly awaited for 9 months. They look forward to seeing the baby and knowing that he was fine and they could announce the presence of his son, and her family was complete.
Before the day of birth, the mothers often feel worried for the health of the baby, but for men, though unspoken, he will be fearful not only for the baby, but also the mother. That is, concern for the two people he loved most at that time.

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Source : female.kompas.com