As a mother of teenage daughters before adulthood, you are required to position itself more intelligent. When will the time be a friend or parent. The reason is, not easy to build familiarity among women. If one takes the attitude, be prepared this age difference relationship is complicated, it can even be conflicting.
Despite the intimacy between mother and friends like a child now increasingly becoming a trend, but sometimes being too familiar to make the position difficult to deal with his daughter's mother. Hierarchy between mother and daughter are still needed for the child know when she could receive her input as a friend and when to obey his mother as a parent.
However, later the child can see the mother as a friend. A survey showed that 71 percent of women ages 21 to 54 years old considered her as a friend.
Mother needs to be done today is to balance roles as parents and friends. She also needs to be firm, hard, and discipline on his son. How can children respect their parents, influenced how the father and mother to position itself.
Hierarchical relationship between mother and child have a positive impact on respect for the privacy of every individual. You as an adult woman and also as the mother has a different personal life with your daughter. So even with your daughter, she has a friend and need to socialize with others his age to develop a personality and identity. The existence of a hierarchy allows parents and children to live the life of each.
Imagine if the mother-child relationship was too close so that all activities are always performed together. What happens is the child trapped in a life with her mother and felt guilty about leaving her mother to socialize with other children his age. The relationship is too close like this also bring a bad influence on her mother. At the time the mother should be doing various activities with community mothers or other positive activities, he is actually trapped in a relationship "friendship" with his daughter.
If the relationship is too close had already occurred between mother and daughter, mature attitude to the solution. You as a mother, an adult female, it should take this role. Be an adult, respect the privacy and independence of girls who are ahead of adults. By behaving like this, your child will appreciate the parents, not only as a friend, but also as a mother.
Despite the intimacy between mother and friends like a child now increasingly becoming a trend, but sometimes being too familiar to make the position difficult to deal with his daughter's mother. Hierarchy between mother and daughter are still needed for the child know when she could receive her input as a friend and when to obey his mother as a parent.
However, later the child can see the mother as a friend. A survey showed that 71 percent of women ages 21 to 54 years old considered her as a friend.
Mother needs to be done today is to balance roles as parents and friends. She also needs to be firm, hard, and discipline on his son. How can children respect their parents, influenced how the father and mother to position itself.
Hierarchical relationship between mother and child have a positive impact on respect for the privacy of every individual. You as an adult woman and also as the mother has a different personal life with your daughter. So even with your daughter, she has a friend and need to socialize with others his age to develop a personality and identity. The existence of a hierarchy allows parents and children to live the life of each.
Imagine if the mother-child relationship was too close so that all activities are always performed together. What happens is the child trapped in a life with her mother and felt guilty about leaving her mother to socialize with other children his age. The relationship is too close like this also bring a bad influence on her mother. At the time the mother should be doing various activities with community mothers or other positive activities, he is actually trapped in a relationship "friendship" with his daughter.
If the relationship is too close had already occurred between mother and daughter, mature attitude to the solution. You as a mother, an adult female, it should take this role. Be an adult, respect the privacy and independence of girls who are ahead of adults. By behaving like this, your child will appreciate the parents, not only as a friend, but also as a mother.
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